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Putting Your House in Order

Preparing for death is not something most of us want to do.   We know it is inevitable, but sometimes we hope that it won’t happen or we just choose not to think about it.  The thing is though, that if we do not put some sort of order to our affairs before we die, then we are forcing those we love to put order to possible chaos at one of their most vulnerable and emotional moments, potentially creating an unnecessary hardship or worsening the grief they feel.

Some things to consider:

  1. Make a will and select an executor who is trustworthy and will use sound judgement in making decisions.
  2. Create a record of personal affairs that lists contacts and relevant account information for your attorney, CPA, financial advisor, realtor, executor, banks, insurance, retirement, credit cards, debt, property owned, safe deposit box, automobile registration, etc.
  3. Sign and notarize a written authorization stating whether you want to be cremated or buried and with which Funeral Home (if already selected). On another page, provide information (if applicable) on cemetery plot, disposition of ashes, service or celebration of life requested (church, synagogue, funeral home, or other), and what music, readings, photos, videos, etc. you might want utilized.
  4. Provide biographical information such as education, religious affiliation, employment history, fraternal, service, social, and/or union membership, boards served on, positions held, special recognition, family information (next of kin, children, etc) and/or your veteran’s service record, as this information will be needed for the death certificate, veteran’s benefits, and/or an obituary.

Whether you feel overwhelmed or are ready to act – call or email us at Putnam Funeral Home and Crematory in Kingsland, TX (325-388-0008, staff@putnamcares.com) or Cremation Advocates by Putnam in Marble Falls (830-798-8413, staff@cremationadvocates.net) – to schedule an appointment to discuss how you can help your loved ones tomorrow by being proactive today.

Honoring our Deceased Veterans

We at Putnam have a proud history of serving military client families.

One of the ways that we honor our deceased honorably discharged veterans or those veterans who have died while on active duty, is by coordinating services with the Highland Lakes Honor Guard, a tax-exempt organization consisting of war veterans from every branch of the Armed Forces of the United States who have served their country honorably. The Highland Lakes Honor Guard is certified by the Department of Defense as Authorized Providers to render military funeral honors for deceased members who have been honorably discharged from military service or who have died while on active duty.

Whether burial or cremation, the Highland Lakes Honor Guard appears in full uniform at graveside, funeral home, church or private location. They provide a flag display consisting of the National, Texas and POW/MIA flags together with the service branch flag under which the deceased veteran has served. They provide a rifle squad to execute a full three-volley rifle salute, a bugler to sound TAPS, a flag folding ceremony wherein the symbolic meaning of each of the 13 folds is explained, insertion of spent casings from the three-volley rifle salute into the folded flag, and the presentation of the folded flag to the next of kin.

These services are offered free to surviving members of the decedent’s family within Burnet or Llano County, Texas. Although donations are appreciated,they are not asked for, expected or required for the services offered. What this organization does is an act of love for those who have honorably and faithfully served their country and have now gone to their eternal rest.

This is just one of the many ways in which Putnam helps you personalize a service or life celebration and make meaning out of loss.

 

 

The Race to the Bottom: Is Price the Only Consideration When Choosing a Funeral Home or Cremation Provider?

Knowledge, quality, service, personalization, legally compliant, going above and beyond, time spent with the family – these are the qualities that people take for granted that they will receive when choosing a funeral home or crematory.  However, there appears to be a race to the bottom in the funeral industry that is negatively impacting the ability of funeral homes and crematories or cremation providers to meet these expectations and many families are walking away from the burial or cremation of a loved one – disappointed.

With on-line options touting cheap cremations and some funeral homes BOLDLY UNDERLINING IN ITALICIZED CAPS THAT THEY WILL PRICE MATCH,  it is clear that the funeral industry incorrectly believes that the number one priority to someone shopping for a funeral home or crematory is price.   And by trying to be the cheapest, many in the funeral industry have initiated a race to the bottom by cutting corners.  Some families tell stories of illegal solicitation efforts, of being offered “Factory Second” urns, being rushed through their initial meeting, receiving the cremated remains of their loved one in the mail, or not being provided options for a service or help with insurance or the option to purchase death certificates, just to name a few.

The final disposition following a death is just that – final.  Families only have one opportunity to have it done right.  There are no do-overs.  So while consumers and funeral homes have been trained to buy and sell solely on price, the race to the bottom, to be the cheapest, has the potential to leave a family bereft and unhappy with how the final disposition of their loved one has been handled.

What can you do to ensure that your expectations are met?  When shopping for a funeral home, crematory, or cremation provider, look beyond the price.  Ask yourself, what am I giving up by going with the cheapest option?  Am I missing out on using a local business who hires locals and volunteers time and money to the community?  Am I missing out on knowledge, or quality, or service?  Am I using a funeral home that engages in shady or illegal practices or finds other ways to cut corners?  And if a funeral home is visibly cutting corners, how might they be cutting corners with my loved one when I am not in the room?  Am I missing out by using a funeral home or cremation provider that really cares and is going to take time with me and help me build a positive foundation for grief?  Am I using a middleman who is going to ship my loved one hours away to be cremated?

In other words, look beyond price and ask questions about what makes a funeral home or crematory or cremation provider different and ask questions about things that are important to you.

You can no longer expect a certain level of service when contracting a funeral or cremation – the race to the bottom, to be the cheapest, has created an environment in which funeral homes and cremation providers are doing whatever they can to cut costs, doing whatever they can to provide a consumer with the cheapest funeral or cremation out there, when maybe what the consumer really wants is for their loved one’s funeral or cremation done well and done right.

Changing the Face of Funeral Homes in Burnet

Cremation Advocates by Putnam is introducing an exciting new concept to Burnet, Horseshoe Bay, Marble Falls and the surrounding areas – an event approach to cremations instead of a traditional funeral home experience.  Not only do we have the only crematory in the Highland Lakes Area, but we have the only licensed funeral establishment in Burnet and Llano counties and beyond that eschews the traditional funeral home setting for a contemporary office setting especially designed to host intimate life celebrations, receptions, gatherings, and functions with the technological capability to include remote friends and families.  Our cremation advocates are ready to help you navigate the cremation process and make meaning out of an emotional time.

Marble Falls Funeral Home

A somber setting, stained glass windows, and organ music – this is typically what one expects when one walks into a funeral home.  We at Cremation Advocates by Putnam understand that many of our client families do not want the traditional funeral home experience.  Therefore, we offer an elegant alternative to a funeral home –  a setting filled with natural light and with a view of Lake Marble Falls.  Our fiber optic internet allows us to bring remote family and friends into our facilities, from the planning stage to the subsequent memorial, gathering, or celebration of life.  Whether you live within Marble Falls, Burnet, Buchanan Dam, Horseshoe Bay, Bertram, Lampassas, Lakeway, Bee Caves, Spicewood, Liberty Hill, or outside of the Highland Lakes area, we are here to provide a cremation that meets the needs of our 21st century families!