Preparing for death is not something most of us want to do. We know it is inevitable, but sometimes we hope that it won’t happen or we just choose not to think about it. The thing is though, that if we do not put some sort of order to our affairs before we die, then we are forcing those we love to put order to possible chaos at one of their most vulnerable and emotional moments, potentially creating an unnecessary hardship or worsening the grief they feel.
Some things to consider:
- Make a will and select an executor who is trustworthy and will use sound judgement in making decisions.
- Create a record of personal affairs that lists contacts and relevant account information for your attorney, CPA, financial advisor, realtor, executor, banks, insurance, retirement, credit cards, debt, property owned, safe deposit box, automobile registration, etc.
- Sign and notarize a written authorization stating whether you want to be cremated or buried and with which Funeral Home (if already selected). On another page, provide information (if applicable) on cemetery plot, disposition of ashes, service or celebration of life requested (church, synagogue, funeral home, or other), and what music, readings, photos, videos, etc. you might want utilized.
- Provide biographical information such as education, religious affiliation, employment history, fraternal, service, social, and/or union membership, boards served on, positions held, special recognition, family information (next of kin, children, etc) and/or your veteran’s service record, as this information will be needed for the death certificate, veteran’s benefits, and/or an obituary.
Whether you feel overwhelmed or are ready to act – call or email us at Putnam Funeral Home and Crematory in Kingsland, TX (325-388-0008, firstname.lastname@example.org) or Cremation Advocates by Putnam in Marble Falls (830-798-8413, email@example.com) – to schedule an appointment to discuss how you can help your loved ones tomorrow by being proactive today.
We at Putnam have a proud history of serving military client families.
One of the ways that we honor our deceased honorably discharged veterans or those veterans who have died while on active duty, is by coordinating services with the Highland Lakes Honor Guard, a tax-exempt organization consisting of war veterans from every branch of the Armed Forces of the United States who have served their country honorably. The Highland Lakes Honor Guard is certified by the Department of Defense as Authorized Providers to render military funeral honors for deceased members who have been honorably discharged from military service or who have died while on active duty.
Whether burial or cremation, the Highland Lakes Honor Guard appears in full uniform at graveside, funeral home, church or private location. They provide a flag display consisting of the National, Texas and POW/MIA flags together with the service branch flag under which the deceased veteran has served. They provide a rifle squad to execute a full three-volley rifle salute, a bugler to sound TAPS, a flag folding ceremony wherein the symbolic meaning of each of the 13 folds is explained, insertion of spent casings from the three-volley rifle salute into the folded flag, and the presentation of the folded flag to the next of kin.
These services are offered free to surviving members of the decedent’s family within Burnet or Llano County, Texas. Although donations are appreciated,they are not asked for, expected or required for the services offered. What this organization does is an act of love for those who have honorably and faithfully served their country and have now gone to their eternal rest.
This is just one of the many ways in which Putnam helps you personalize a service or life celebration and make meaning out of loss.
UPDATE from the Texas Funeral Service Commission: “The Commission is alerting Texas consumers that Heritage Crematory Services advertises its services in Texas but it does not hold a license in the state. As such, the Commission has limited jurisdiction to help resolve complaints against the entity. Prior to pay or agreeing to pay for funeral services, consumers are urged to check the Commission website to ensure the entity is licensed in Texas.”
On June 29, 2017, the National Funeral Directors Association sent out an alert to funeral homes across the United States regarding Heritage Cremation Providers, “an online cremation business that has been the target of state enforcement actions in Colorado, Florida, Georgia, Massachusetts, North Carolina, Oregon and Tennessee.” This provider appears on the top of google searches for “local cremations” regardless of city, including cities in our local area such as Marble Falls, Horseshoe Bay, Burnet, Llano, Kingsland, Granite Shoals and Bertram. As the only local crematory in the Highland Lakes area, Putnam DOES NOT make removals, or cremate for, this provider. Therefore, this provider in NO WAY offers local cremations.
“On its website, this Provider, which also operates under the name of Legacy Funeral Service, portrays itself as a low-cost, family-owned, locally based cremation service. In actuality, it is a scandal-ridden middleman that collects payments from consumers for cremation services and then outsources all of the work to funeral homes and crematories that perform removals and carry out the cremation. Due to numerous misrepresentations on its website, its lack of licensing, and a track record of carelessness and incompetence, it has drawn the scrutiny of state enforcement agencies and the Federal Trade Commission.
These two companies were able to operate unchecked for several years because they were selling cremation services over the internet. As such, they did not have a physical base of operations which makes it difficult for state licensing authorities to pursue them. But, faced with a mountain of consumer complaints, state agencies have begun to issued fines and injunctions against them. In addition, apparently 30 complaints have been filed with the Federal Trade Commission, although it is not known if the FTC is actively investigating this company.
According to reports from the Better Business Bureau, which currently gives this provider a D- grade, Heritage Cremation Providers, Legacy Funeral Services, and its owners Joseph Damiano and Anthony Joseph Damiano have been ordered to cease and desist operations in Florida, Georgia and Colorado. Moreover, in North Carolina, the State Funeral Board has advised funeral homes in that state that if they perform services for this provider, that they will be charged with aiding and abetting an unlicensed provider of cremation.
Even in states where there is no current order against this provider, funeral homes and crematories should be aware of the numerous enforcement actions from around the country.”
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